Speaking during intercourse to provoke desire

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Is it permissible to say inappropriate words (i.e., words that are not permissible) during intercourse in order to provoke desire in one's wife?.

Praise be to Allaah.
 

 

It is permissible for both husband and wife to say whatever
they want to provoke desire during intercourse, and that does not have to be
something that was narrated in the Sunnah, but it is not permissible to say
anything that is forbidding in Islam, such as lies or slanderous words. But
with regard to mentioning the genitals by their colloquial names or other
things that provoke desire in word or deed, the basic principle is that it
is permissible. 

Some of the scholars are of the view that this is makrooh,
and they regarded it as contrary to proper etiquette. But the correct view
is that it is permissible. Even if we accept that it is makrooh, then that
ruling may be lifted when there is the least need for it, and the need her
is obvious. 

If it is permissible for the husband to touch his wife’s
private part, look at it and enjoy it, then it is more appropriate that he
is permitted to call it by a name that will provoke his wife; and the
converse is also permitted. 

See also the answer to question no.
13621 

And Allaah knows best.